...have been "him & me" for 8 years today!*
It's amazing how each of us and our relationship has grown and changed in that time. If you are at a place today that your marriage doesn't feel like much to celebrate, please don't give up. The things you've worked the hardest for often offer the sweetest rewards. God has given you your husband (I'm guessing we're mostly ladies here) as a gift, and He can make marriage a blessing when we seek Him and are willing to do the work!
Ok. Sermonette over.
*So sorry for the bad grammar. That phrase got stuck in my head and I couldn't get around it!