HOTM Friday Meme

Today's Heart of the Matter Friday meme is a video about why you love your spouse.

This is my first video meme and it was much harder than I thought it would be! The following was my 4th or 5th take.

It wasn't until AFTER I got it all loaded onto Blogger that I saw how dark it is, but it took so long to load I'm not doing it over! So, even though I look like someone in the witness protection program, this really is me and my contribution to today's meme! :)

To be more specific about our "silly little games" - we have played (among other things): Uno, Yahtzee, Battleship (but don't tell Dale!), Mad Libs, and, our current favorite, Hangman. A morbid little game, but fun. :)

Happy Valentine's Day to you and yours, and be sure to check out Heart of the Matter for more videos!

To sleep, or not to sleep?

Every so often it becomes necessary for me to re-evaluate and decide what I value more - Sleep or Time Alone.

Lately I've been choosing Sleep, but I think I have returned to a point that Time Alone may win out.

Choosing Sleep means I get out of bed at the same time as the boys. Which means showering while they are up and awake and unsupervised around the house. Yes, there is the whole idea of night-time showers, and sometimes that is what I do. Sometimes, I don't get a shower at all!

Here's the thing: I really love my hot showers. They mean a few several minutes of peace and quiet and solitude. And, as a bonus, in the end you come out clean and smelling nice. Not a bad deal at all!

During this time, I can tolerate a little talking through the door, or fingers appearing underneath it. We are trying to train our boys not to hang out in front of a closed bathroom door. That's just rude and annoying. And semi-gross if you ask me. At the same time, a little exchange now and then is better than complete silence. Silence makes you wonder what they're into.

But this morning.... well.... I think I've reached the end of the line for Sleep winning out over Time Alone. Because this morning, my Shower Time Alone was completely violated.

It went like this:

Several minutes of the space heater and steam from the shower had the bathroom nice and warm.

I was still on the early end of my shower routine, right between the shampoo and conditioner.

Dale stuck his head in the door. "Mama. I need to go to the bathroom."

Of course I granted entrance. I didn't want to deal with wet pants later!

Dale noted the steamed-up mirror and we had a quick discussion about the similarities of mist, fog, and steam. (We've been talking about mist and fog this week). Hey - homeschooling happens everywhere, right?

But my patience ran out pretty quick and when Alan joined us in the bathroom I shooed them both back to their play-dough.

This is where it all started to go downhill.

"But Mama. I'm pooping."

Aw, man.

Gross.

Of course, there is no way Alan was going to leave when everyone else in the house was hanging out in the bathroom. And besides, Alan loves showers too.

Dale was feeling quite chatty. Me? Notsomuch.

He brought up a number of subjects, all of which were met with a "hurry up" or "finish up" from me.

Alan - the one who loves showers, remember? - opened the door to check in on me once. I was neither thankful or appreciative of his concern.

I was trapped! In my own shower! I coudln't even reach my towel.

At least I was there to monitor the singing-of-the-ABC's during Dale's hand washing.

But so much for peace, quiet, and solitude. I'm SO setting my alarm tonight.

WFMW - Freezing meat

For frugality and other various other reasons I will often not use a whole package of meat for a meal, especially things that are packaged as individual pieces, like chicken and pork chops.

Instead, I pull out a few pieces and freeze them. This is great, as long as you don't end up with a freezer full of mystery meat!

I like to layer each piece between wax paper for easier thawing, making sure the wax paper covers the outside pieces as well, and then wrap the whole package in foil, sealed tightly all around. In case you haven't experienced it yourself, foil sticks to frozen meat. Not fun.

But here is the kicker: after wrapping your pre-left-overs, and before sticking them in the freezer, grab a sharpie or marks-a-lot and label that little puppy:

I like to be specific. Because once it enters my freezer I can be certain that is the last I will ever remember my encounter with that particular meat.

I love opening my freezer and having extra meat hidden back and ready to go!

Go to Rocks In My Dryer for other WFMW tips.

Making, hiding, building, trying

Had us a nice little day here in the herd.

I would call it a rainy day at home except we went out this morning during the rainy part for Alan's labs, and the part we were at home was more soggy than rainy, but either way... we spent the majority of our day inside. This is how we filled it:

Found this idea from No Time for Flashcards. Fun blog full of great ideas!

We aren't necessarily doing a letter of the day or week or anything, but Dale has been really into Valentine's day this year, so I couldn't pass up this Valentine-y activity that both boys could do!

Both boys spent a good bit of time in and out of the cardboard box. Mostly Alan. Those big ol' flaps can get frustrating when you want them to close up on you, but reaching out to pull one to you pushes another away!

We've had it for several weeks, but it is still fun (and still in one piece) so I can't bring myself to throw it out yet. :)

Something else that has been around a while but has found new life lately is our wooden blocks. Dale has built a lot with them the last few days - and I love that!

Alan has watched this video a lot lately, and I played it for him several times today:

Dale and I did a science experiment. He has been big into science lately. We are FIARing "Wee Gillis" this week. The story didn't seem to grab him today, so I jumped straight to the science in hopes of sparking his interest for the rest of the week. Great in theory, except our little experiment didn't work! Greg said it may have had to do something with the humidity, so maybe we'll try again another day.

And, in a rare "two art projects in one day" blitz, we made this:

I saw the idea for this "cereal box" heart garland at Plum Pudding and have been wanting to make it for several days. Dale did some tracing, I did all the cutting, and Dale did most of the gluing. I'm disappointed in the picture - this little garland is much cuter in person! Ours is made from a Welch's fruit snacks box. Lots of pinks and purples!

We're hoping to do some more Valentine's things this week, along with some more FIAR / Wee Gillis.

Do you have any favorite hands-on Valentine projects?

How do you eat YOUR oreo?

This picture shows pretty much how Alan felt from 7am Monday morning until around 10am Wednesday (yesterday).

Even though it appears to be a regular kid fever-virusy thing, it was enough for a kid like Alan to get landed in the hospital. We got to the hospital around bedtime Tuesday and are still there now.

But that is not as bad as it sounds. Of course we would rather be home, but when you have spent as much time as we have (and some have spent much more) in a place like this, it quickly loses it's intimidating sadness.

This place has a special place in our hearts. It always will. We have gone through some of our most difficult times here. We have also seen some of God's greatest work in our lives.

Each time we come here we are reminded of these things, and happy to see the caring people that are on this journey with us, most of them from the beginning over two years ago.

Not only does coming here bring back memories, it is also a wonderful place for people watching.

Yesterday I made the long walk to the car and listened to people as I passed them by.

Two casually dressed (as in - sweats and ponytails) women were talking in a hallway. They hugged as I passed, one saying to the other, "I'm sure we'll see you again - we'll be here a while."

Hmmm... looks to me like two moms of patients just formed a new friendship.

A man in a suit stood at a busy hallway intersection on his cell-phone. "Okay, I'm here. Which set of elevators do I go to to find you?"

Yes - the elevators they are many, and navigating around here takes a little while to learn.

Finally, I got onto an elevator with a family of four: mom, dad, preschooler, and baby covered up in an infant seat. They didn't speak English, but do you know what I learned? Whining can be understood in any language.

Preschooler whined something - probably about not ready to go home, or wanting to go to get french fries, or... or... or... we can all just imagine. We've all heard it before.

Mom replied in a patient explanation. Preschooler whined again. Dad spoke firmly and whining was over.

Ahh.... parenting in any language.

Yeah... in a hard-to-explain sort of way, I love coming here. And while we will always prefer home, and we don't want to see Alan sick, and it is hard to have our lives interrupted and our families separated..... the fact that this isn't just any old hospital makes it all a little better. Because this isn't just any old hospital. In it's own special way, it is almost like home. :)

And Alan? Oh he's feeling much better. In fact, by supper time last night, THIS is what we had:

Mmmm... cookie lickin' good!

Obviously, Oreos make everything better.

And by this morning... well... you know things are better when the dino is wearing the band-aids, and the patient is not.

Gathering at the Well.... thoughts on Titus 2

The Monday discussion At the Well today is to share our thoughts on Titus 2:2-5. How we see it playing out in our own life, our areas of strengths and weaknesses, and any goals we may have in relation to this scripture.

This is interesting timing for me, because lately I have come to believe more than ever that everything we are taught and asked to do in the Bible is to teach us more about God, our relationship with Him, and/or our eternity with him.

So while I take the instructions in Titus 2 literally, I also want to use the lessons in them to learn more about my Heavenly Father and my relationship with him.

The past two years have taught me the practicality of this mindset as well. Because of health issues with our youngest, life has often been interrupted for days or weeks at a time, and always with very little or no advanced warning.

When my greatest desire is to be at home, well.... keeping my home, and loving on my children, and living a quiet little life, and then that quiet little life gets interrupted, then I am frustrated.

When I focus too much on home-making and home-schooling and I don't accomplish all I think I need too, then I am frustrated.

But when my greatest desire is to love the Lord my God with all my heart, soul, and mind, and to keep his commandments (Matthew 22:35-37, and Ecclesiastes 12:13), that can be done anywhere. In any circumstances.

Don't get me wrong - I am not discounting the instructions given to women in Titus 2. In fact, being the best wife, mother, and homemaker I can be is one of my deepest desires. But what I am learning is to not hold myself to certain physical standards, and instead keep an eternal perspective. To see what my relationships with my husband and children can teach me about my Heavenly Father and his love for me, and my love for him.

That is my goal.

That and cleaner floors, of course. ;)

Be sure to visit At the Well for thoughts and encouragement!

Fun tag!

My mom (Lisa @ Simple Journeys) has passed on this fun and simple little tag.

You are supposed to go to your computer's picture files, find the 6th folder, then the 6th picture in that folder, and display it on your blog.

Here is what I found:
This is Dale in September 2004, a week after his 1st birthday. He had received a box of clothes in the mail as a gift, and we were looking through it all.

I love looking at the details on a picture that is several years old.
In this pic:
- At the far left edge is a chair we no longer have. Sold it (and it's mate) in a yard sale this past summer.

- My old cell phone is on the piano.

- As is a Willow Tree figurine that lost her head in 2008. But I took it to Paw Paw (who can fix ANYthing) and she is all better now.

Isn't my little Dale a cutie?

And now, the second part of this tag is to pass it on to 6 (of course) other bloggers.

I would love to see the 6th picture from:
Natalie

Michelle

Karen

MomToFiveKids

Kara

Sam ( Sam - I know you are a little busy right now, but there was no way I could leave you out of a photo tag!!) :)