Happy Birthday, Alan!

  Little boys are treasures

Who are worth their weight in gold

And charm everyone around them

From the time they're hours old.

They're Mommy's little darling,

They're a special pal to Dad,

And they bring the very happiest days

A family's ever had!

I decided for Alan's birthday post I wanted to write a little poem for him.  But wanting to and having the mental tenacity to actually do so are two different things.  So I grabbed one from the 'net.  That doesn't ruin it for you does it?  

At any rate, my middle treasure is 4 years old!

Happy Birthday, Precious Boy!  I love you!

To-do, to-day, to-did, ta-da!

Yo blog world.  What up?  I am currently in one of those 'there aren't enough hours in the day' phases. Come to think of it, aren't we always in that phase?  


My want-to-do and need-to-do lists are both running over with notes to be written and a thanksgiving sewing project to make.  And there are a few things on my Done! list I want to share.  Including the story behind that magnificent cupcake you see above.  Isn't it a beauty?


But, surprise, surprise, we are on our way out the door, again, so all the doing and blogging will have to wait.


What is at the top of your To-Do lists today?

Everybody say 'Cheese'!

We finally got around to a long-awaited, much anticipated, highly-delayed photo shoot of the boys today.

I am ever-so-blessed to have a mom with a kickin' camera and the willingness to spend the biggest part of a day aiming it at my boys!

We were a little rushed because of pending rain, but we got enough good shots to make it worth all the effort.

And I do mean All. The. Effort.

But, as a fun little bonus for All The Effort, we get shots like this! 

And this:

And this:

But, in the end, we did end up with some good pictures, and everybody still loved everybody else. 

Umm... almost.

(And, yes, hopefully I'll be sharing the good shots too, after I get some more editing done.) :)

Flashbacks, and walking in someone else's shoes

Tyler randomly popped up with a fever yesterday.  No other symptoms... just a fever that's stuck with him for 24 hours and counting now.  It's kind of odd around here for a kid to have a fever and for us to be doing... well, pretty much nothing about it.  We got so conditioned to acting fast and understanding fevers to mean serious sickness.  But, so far, it looks like it's just a kid thing, and we are praying it stays that way.

Getting out thermometers and tylenol always makes me think of Alan anyway, but last night I got off on another trail down memory lane...


In our Children's hospital, vitals are checked every 4 hours.  This meant 3 times in a 12 hour shift a smiling 'tech' would knock on our door, pulling a blood pressure machine with her.  She would un-velcro a blood pressure cuff from the bed and wrap it around Alan's arm.  Then she'd take a thermometer from the end of his bed and stick it under the same arm and start the bp machine.

Blood pressure, heart rate, and temperature would all finish reading about the same time and she would write them down on her notepad to enter into the computer later.  


Of course, all this time, she'd be chatting with us or, more likely, playing with Alan.  He was just a baby then, you know.  The long days got pretty monotonous, so having a tech come in for vitals was very much like having a visitor and we were usually glad for the diversion.


Usually.


Because you see.... vitals were checked every. 4. hours.  And that included throughout the night.  


The first check usually came around 9:00.  Knowing it was coming, we tried our hardest to keep Alan awake for it.  Most of the time that wasn't too hard.


But by 1:00am, we were usually enjoying some well-earned, hard-fought SLEEP, and I didn't care how sick my baby had been 3 days ago, he hasn't had a temp in 48 hours and is FINE now thankyouverymuch and can you just take his vitals later? Mkay, bye.


But no.  Most of the time I would wake up the instant the door opened and the hall light would seep in, even though it was dimmed for the night.

This would be a good place to point out that, not surprisingly, some techs were quieter than others.  And some were more efficient than others.  But even for the best it was a challenge to keep Alan asleep for all that measuring and maneuvering.


If it was a tech I liked, and that had a chance of keeping Alan asleep, I'd usually get up and stand by his bedside to assist.


If I knew it was someone likely to wake him up anyway, I'd just lay there 'possuming, waiting and watching for it all to go bad.  If I was particularly short on sleep and grumpy I'd lay there fuming.  Other times I was more kindly and patiently waiting for her to do her thing and get gone so I could nurse him back to sleep.


It was a sad sight really.  It was usually the younger ones, those closer to girl than woman that woke him up.  And granted, they'd try.  They'd pat and shush but I knew it was all in vain.  Once he was awake, he was awake.  And ... if I wasn't particularly short on sleep and grumpy, I'd feel sorry for them.  But a few times I just let them squirm.

There was one woman, my very favorite, who could almost always get in and out without waking him up.  Usually she worked days, but sometimes, ah, every once in a while, she worked nights.  I always knew we were more likely to get a better night's sleep when Maria was on.  Deborah was my second favorite.  She was pretty good, too.


All this to say, last night I woke up at 3:30am.  The last I had known anything about Tyler and his fever was when I put him to bed at 9:00.  I really wanted to leave him sleeping, but the thought of him possibly laying in there burning up with fever was too much to bear, so I quietly opened his door and took a look at him.  My hands were useless.  They had been bundled up under the covers with me... I don't know... maybe I'd even been laying on them.  So, thermometer it was.


He stirred some as I held his arm against his side, but then the thing started beeping it was done.  LOUDLY.  I couldn't shut it off or the reading would go away, so I ran into the next room to read it in there.  With it beeping the whole time.  And, of course, Tyler was awake and crying from the first beep.

So I scooped him up and rocked and nursed him, thinking back to all those nights of vitals, and admiring those techs and nurses for all of their skills and tenderness taking care of my other baby.


And wishing I had a name badge with a mini-mag-light hanging from it. 

Let me check my calendar...

The whole family was up at least an hour earlier than usual.  The sky was just beginning to lighten from night into day, and a definite chill was in the air.  Everyone had on long sleeves and a pair of warm socks.

I had already been working on food for later in the day, and a cinnamony breakfast was cooking in the oven.

We all sat in our pj's enjoying each other's company.  The boys played together blissfully in the floor, which was littered with new toys and the packages they had come in.

Sound like Christmas morning, yes?  That's exactly what we said to ourselves, as we lived out the above scenario... yesterday morning.


The whole family was up at least an hour earlier than usual - Hello, morning after the end of daylight savings time.  Surely we weren't the only ones early to bed, early to rise the last couple of days?


a definite chill was in the air - No, it isn't quite December weather, but slowly and surely we are making the transition from fall to winter.  Just a few days ago we had our first frost!


I had already been working on food for later in the day - Christmas dinner, Sunday dinner... I don't know about yours, but my family likes to eat at least 3 times a day, 365 days a year.  Yesterday I put stuffed peppers in the crockpot to enjoy after church.  I wish I had the time and foresight to use my crockpot every Sunday!


a cinnamony breakfast was cooking in the oven - With all that extra time from being up so early, I decided a hot breakfast was in order, even if it was Sunday and I was cooking lunch already.  For the second time this week I mixed up a batch of cinnamon raisin biscuits and then topped off the finished product with a powdered sugar icing.   Yummy!


The boys played together blissfully in the floor, which was littered with new toys and the packages they had come in. - All this bounty was a result of the final installment of Alan's recent Make-A-Wish experience.  He had a sort of 'bonus' party Saturday where we acquired yet a few more John Deere toys.  These are the toys they were drawn to early Sunday morning before their eyes were hardly awake yet.


I love treasuring moment like these, when everyday life creates its own special days!

A Circus Tale

The circus came to our town today, and we, being the fun-loving family of young children that we are, were there.  It was the first circus I have been to as an adult.

Seeing as how it has rained for 24 of the last 36 hours, the whole place was a muddy, muddy mess.  See?

Anyhow and who, we paid for two high-priced tickets and two got in free thanks to some coupons I picked up at the grocery store a few days ago.  (That in itself was a pretty cool story, because I go to that store about 3 or 4 times a year!)  We stood around in the mud for a while observing the petting zoo goats and llamas and camels until the big top flaps opened up and we found our seats.

It wasn't long until the lights dimmed, spotlights came on, and out came a pretty girl in a sparkly costume.  Big dramatic music poured out from who-knows-where, and our pretty performer spun and danced from a hoop 20 feet in the air.  And y'all?  I wouldn't admit this to just anybody, but tears sprang to my eyes and I had to stop myself from crying right then and there.  I don't know what came over me.  I suspect the joy of sharing such a simple thing with the people I love so much.  And then, sitting right there in our little bitty town watching a cheap traveling circus, I thought about a local 3 year old boy and my 26 year old sister-in-law, both beginning their own journeys against cancer.  And I was so glad and thankful to be where I was.

Once I got-a-hold of myself and quit boo-hooing, we enjoyed an hour and a half of one circus act after another.  And while we had wondered earlier how the circus could make a profit in our little town, we soon found out.  There was a constant stream of people selling incredibly overpriced sodas and snow cones, popcorn and cotton candy, inflatable animals and light-up swords. Aha.  So that's how they make their money.  Not off us, thankyouverymuch!  As we told the boys, "We came for the show!"


And really, other than one kiddie train carnival ride we passed on the way out, the boys didn't ask for anything extra.  (And no, we didn't ride the train.)


Cheap or not, the show was actually very enjoyable.  We had a great time talking it over and reliving it over our pancake supper when we got home.  Alan sat in my lap for most of the show so he could see better.  Worked out great for me, because I got to hear his commentary.  


For instance, the pretty girl spinning five hoola hoops in 3 different directions while standing on one foot?  Alan says, "I bet Kristin (his aunt) can do that!" 


And then there was the young man from Columbia wearing a LEE-OH-tard of epic proportions (I think I'll never like that color blue again) and bending and contorting in all different directions.  Assistants brought out a plexiglass box no bigger than a fish tank, and I'm thinking 'No way....' when, 'yes-way' he folded himself up inside that box and pulled the clear lid shut.  It was about that time Alan leaned over and said, "Daddy?  Can you do that?"


But the three little words that made every penny and moment worth what we spent came from Dale as we got out of the car at home.


"That was awesome!"

The Pumpkin Patch that Wasn't Really a Pumpkin Patch

... but was still loads of fun!

We met up with friends this weekend for a visit to a "pumpkin patch".

I had never been to one and really wanted to take the boys.  Turns out this place called "The Pumpkin Patch" didn't grow pumpkins anywhere in sight, and if you wanted to take one home you had to *gasp* pay extra for it.  


No way, no how.  

However, pumpkin patch or not, the place had lots to do and we all had fun.  Definitely worth the cost of admission, judging by the boys' votes.

Plus, when you're running around with a girl in a black tutu, how can you go wrong?  Goodness knows we need all the touches of femininity we can get around here!


Instead of pumpkins, hay was the main feature of our afternoon o'fall fun.  In addition to the HAYride (pictured above) we also enjoyed a HAY maze:

...and, the boys' favorite, a HAY mountain:

Other, albeit random, fun included an obstacle course where you could practice your jumping skills...

...or not.

And an old pickup truck for playing and photo-ops.  Something just seems wrong about a girl owning the driver's seat, though:

And about that whole no-pumpkins thing... maybe it was for the best.  Much like Goldilocks trying out chairs, Dale tried out all the photo-spots in rapid succession.  He jumped up from one, where he had chosen to straddle a pumpkin, proclaiming, "That pumpkin was kind of SOFT!"


Oops.